The title of this blog post may seem pretty obvious. You may have read it and thought ‘of course living with a chronic illness isn’t fun’, but its not the obvious I am going to talk about today. I often hear things like ‘at least you get to have a lot of sleep’ or ‘you get to spend a lot of time in bed’, as if these are things to be grateful for, or as if they are perks of my illness. And I know I am not alone in that. Comments like that arent meant to be offensive or insensitive. Often they are from people trying to support you,…